Just so you know, I am the Founder of businesses which have been in existence for more than 20 years and I’ve been the Founder of at least two that I’ve closed in three years or less after their opening gala.
Moreover, I’ve overcome no/low self-esteem and no self-confidence of epic proportions to create and powerfully lead teams to what seemed like impossible success.
In addition I’ve raised two children to be entrepreneurs (in the purest form!) and I am very much a part of their businesses.
Just so you know, I’ve been accused of being a bitch and a darling…in equal proportions. I was amused that people expected me to respond to either of these accusations.
I have borrowed money and paid it back with ease and I have borrowed some that paying it back turned into a disease.
I’ve had many sleepless nights about how to pay “business gone bad” debts of over $100,000 (us$50,000).
That was until I embraced delegation and delegated those problems to God and the bank.
But if I know anything…it’s how small business really works, how it should work and how you can make yours work.
Through all my challenges and successes, I’ve learnt amazing lessons and I’ve learnt them well!
And I found lessons in those businesses that failed as well as those that succeeded.
I found lessons in the times when I had money to deposit in the bank and even more when the bank called to say I had exceeded my overdraft.
1. How to remain true to your dreams even as they are causing you nightmares
2. How to be strategic and make everything you do take you towards your ultimate goal
3. You cannot define yourself by your debt
4. How to be a single mother and still have it all
5. What it takes to be successful in business and it’s not what you think
6. You cannot force big business approaches and strategies to work for small businesses
7. If you allow others to determine what your success looks like, you might never believe you’re successful
8. How to choose and work with a business partner
9. You should only be a Founder of a business which is in sync with your values
10. To always lighten up and laugh
I never gave up on my dreams. And I never compromised my values. I always faced the music and like any good conductor, I control the entire orchestra right down to the last defiant note!
So now I guarantee you that YOU too can have the life that you want. You too can be a Founder of a business that represents who you are.
Don’t believe that every story has to be one of rags to riches.
I wish I had a fabulous “rags to riches” story to tell you but even if I did, the Inland Revenue Department in my country would be after me in a hurry.
And I suspect that you don’t have one to tell me either.
Now just pick up another juicy part of my story here…